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05 January 2008

♥ on an entirely different subject,

I probably shouldn't read anonymous comments on Morgan's blog... It makes me kind of twitchy when people who are in college, you know, real live adults, are that immature.

When I'm mad at somebody for talking to my ex, which doesn't happen to me very often--you have to learn to do this thing called getting over it--I stay away from and ignore them rather than insisting on involving myself in their day-to-day life.

I'm sick of the "you don't understand, you've never been heartbroken!" thing, because the truth is that everyone experiences heartbreak. You can't tell me you were more in love, more rejected, more whatever, because it's all relative, isn't it? Even suffering. Even heartbreak.

The shitty part of love is afterwards, when you have to pick up the pieces and move on. It's okay to feel sad and lonely, it's okay to feel betrayed, but then you have to be happy with what you still do have--like friends and family or whatever gets you through the day--and find other ways to pretend to be happy, and after awhile you realize something:

You don't have to pretend anymore.

In the meantime, it's much healthier to stay away from the people who bring you down. Silly "anonymous," Morgan made that super easy for you by moving to a different continent, because obviously she doesn't really want to talk to you, either. Staying away from someone who lives in London shouldn't be that hard if you live in Denver. (Or Boulder, more specifically. Let's not play little mind games, though I know you love them; everyone knows who you are.)

Moral of the story: I don't really enjoy publishing angry posts for all to read, and maybe I should take my own advice and stay away from Morgan's blog so her anonymous harassers don't bother me. But I like Morgan, and I don't want to stop reading her blog. And since it is really meant for people who like her (people like me) I think all anonymouses should just stay away from it, is what I really think.

There.

♥ the best is yet to be.
1/05/2008

♥ yours truly. ;

    "And I asked myself about the present: how wide it was, how deep it was, how much was mine to keep." --Kurt Vonnegut, Slaughterhouse-Five

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